STOP THE WEDDING! If your partner does these 9 things!!!

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DON'T DO IT!!!

Wedding season is upon us...and whether you're on the fence/having some reservations or 100% confident that you are marrying your one true love....take a look at this list from HuffPost to be sure you are ready to walk down the aisle

Here are a few warning signs: 

1. They frequently put other people and plans before you. 

Does your partner cancel plans with you when something better comes up with his buddies? Or maybe she picks up a non-urgent work call while you two are out to dinner celebrating your birthday. If so, it might be a sign that your partner isn’t prioritizing you and your relationship. 

“People get married for lots of reasons,” marriage and family therapist Aaron Andersontold HuffPost. “It’s not always for love. Make sure you’re not marrying someone who’s marrying you out of convenience. Make sure they’re putting you first. You don’t want to be the understanding spouse for the rest of your life, or soon you’ll start feeling like a doormat.”

2. They don’t communicate well.  

Instead of having a productive conversation about a tricky topic ― like sex, family issues or money ― your partner either argues with you about it or just avoids the discussion altogether. It’s been said time and time again, but communication really is the cornerstone of a strong marriage. If you can’t talk candidly about the tough stuff, you might not be ready for marriage quite yet.  

“The problems that develop when long-standing problems remain unsolved can ruin your relationship,” Tina Tessina, psychotherapist and co-author of How to Be a Couple and Still Be Free, told HuffPost. “Make it a point to talk about whatever seems difficult: You need to know how well you two can discuss the difficult things that will arise during a lifetime together.”

And if you can’t find a way to discuss these things without it turning into a blowout fight, it may be wise to see a couples therapist who can help you sharpen your communication skills. 

“If that doesn’t work, the relationship probably won’t work either,” Tessina said. 


CLICK HERE FOR THE FULL LIST FROM HUFFPOST

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